For cold, hard cash
To get by, I split my free time between two federal work-study jobs on campus. For a couple winters I worked at yet another work-study job; I stayed in the dorm then and paid for groceries. This pretty much consisted of canned soup, crackers, PB&J sandwiches, and apples. College students have eaten worse. During the winter and summer breaks off-campus, I worked
seasonally as a server in a small family-owned restaurant in my hometown. I started at 6 am and left in the early evening.
I made and saved money for textbooks by selling and buying them on
eBay and
Half.com.
Amazon and
Chegg weren't as popular then. Portable smartphones and tablets didn't exist in the early 2000's either; ebooks weren't much of a thought. All of the textbooks I sold back weren't originally mine either. Other students would trash their old books at the end of each semester. Appalled, I would liberate these from the residential garbage rooms and re-sell them online for a better profit than the school bookstore offered.
For housing
In freshman and sophomore year, I lived in the dorms, courtesy of student loans. I was convinced that I had to get away from where I was from in order to really mature and develop into a well-adjusted adult. I was right. As an upperclassman, I was selected as a resident assistant, which paid for room & board including meals for my remaining time in college. This greatly reduced my debt burden and worry. Until securing that position, I nearly transferred to a 4-year public school back home.
For tuition & fees
I was able to attend a small private college because they offered me a scholarship that made most in-state schools (with room & board) equally priced. The decision to live on campus was entirely my own, and I knew the ramifications of that choice.
In the end, I paid for school with a combination of merit aid, institutional grants, endowments, outside scholarships and roughly $80K in student
loans (Stafford, Perkins, and private). I brought in a few course credits earned through AP courses, took a couple extra classes during an academic year, and successfully appealed to my dean to approve an independent study that fulfilled my final graduation requirements. I graduated a semester early as a double major with honors,
with enough work experience and internships under my belt to get hired during the Recession. I turned down one job in favor of another organization that paid for
my Master's degree and a post-graduate certificate while I worked full-time. I took out another student loan during my probationary period, using the excess to pay down an earlier loan with a much higher interest rate. I graduated
early with honors a second time.
What I learned
- Having a bank account is important. I never had one growing up, and opened my first checking/savings at 17 years old. Then, I brought my sister with me and had her open one too. This was my first positive experience with sharing financial knowledge, and it felt great.
- How to make a finite amount of resources last. Getting into this habit helped me when I graduated and my first paycheck burned a hole in my pocket. It was so much more money than I was used to having at once, but not nearly enough after taxes and paying bills each month.
- Instead of splurging on drinks and fun with friends every week, I stayed in most evenings and ramped up my savings so I would have something to fall back on after graduation. When I wasn't at a student club meeting or campus event, I worked. Some of my friendships suffered for it, but my savings account thanked me. I also kept a minimal spending budget that allowed me to see them occasionally and feel "normal".
- I took advantage of the campus meal plan and rarely ate off-campus. The food wasn't always delicious, but it was edible. People who complained must have been living with Michelin chefs previously.
- How to advocate for myself to maximize my financial aid and reduce my tuition costs. In theory, great. In practice, it didn't always work or wasn't always warranted. I was respectful and understanding about the review though, whether in my favor or not. For example, I once sent a thank you email to a college administrator who explained why I did not qualify for a refund check my parent believed I was owed. She gave me a free lesson in managing finances and didn't even know it.
- About student loans: A whole slew of lessons here, the most important points being to only borrow what you need, read through that promissory note carefully (and retain a copy of it), keep a close watch over account details with your loan servicer, and use a repayment calculator- before borrowing and regularly after.
What I would do differently:
- Factor in-state grants into the overall cost for college. I studied out-of-state and only received a denial letter from the state agency on the basis of my college's location; I cannot recall whether I would have qualified otherwise, but now I wonder.
- Attend the small private college anyway after asking for additional aid consideration. I wasn't greedy, and felt awkward and embarrassed to say, "Hey, I want to attend, but could use some more assistance. Do I qualify for anything more?" There is no shame in asking.
- Worked more hours in my freshman year. Most incoming students average about 5-6 hours. I could have picked up a few more, though I do not relish the memory of taking inventory for loaned athletic equipment that first semester. I became good at stacking soccer balls though.
- Hug my cosigner. I mean, I did, but I feel the need to again. I'm going to grapple 'em in a big warm hug the next time I see them.
- Spent less in New York City by taking advantage of more free things to do.
- Cried less and reassured myself more. It was incredibly difficult to support myself, but rewarding and self-affirming. I would not have the same confidence had I chosen an easier path. Life isn't fair. College education isn't free. Yes, it's expensive and certain choices I made helped increase the price tag, while others lessened it. I don't blame anyone else for the student loan debt I took on though. That was all me.
